Disclaimer***** I'm not
a crazy obsessive girlfriend type. I just have a good understanding of how much
one should love someone in a healthy relationship. Resulting from being in
relationships that either had too much or way to little love on one or both
parts.*****
So I saw this post on
Facebook. And it struck a chord for me. Not about anyone in particular, but
just in general. Ok maybe for a couple of in particulars. But it really is the
truest statement I've come across on these pseudo inspirational plaques that
people post on social media.
I can honestly say that
this sentiment is a significant motivator for me when it comes to deciding to
continue a relationship with someone. When you stop and think about it, if the
idea of them being a stranger to you doesn't devastate you, and the thought of
not being able to dial them up to tell them something, or share exciting news
isn't crushing to you, why even bother?
It's hooky and overly
sentimental but I don't want to be with someone who I can easily imagine my
life without.
Who ever I'm with should
at least mean enough to me in my daily life that if they weren't there I would
genuinely miss the shit out of them, and not knowing when I would see them
again, or worse knowing I will never see then again, would make my day suck
just a little.
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